From the Desk of Karl Denninger
June 20, 1999
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I reproduce for you a short excerpt that is of great importance this Father’s Day.
We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.--That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed…..
Fifty-five words.
I’m sure you recognize them. They form the first part of the declarative paragraph of The Declaration of Independence, a founding document of this country’s government.
Today, on Father’s Day, I want to discuss with you the importance of that document as it relates to fatherhood and children, and how it relates to the issues at hand.
Let us view the issue of custody and its surrounding areas of law from the perspective of the children who are the real victims of your legislative policies and those of this state in general. We will assume two parents and a child in this hypothetical family, and look at the perversions that this State’s – and your – policies foist off on these individuals.
To make this more personal, we shall name our child "Charlie".
In this intact family, Charlie is free to seek attention and interactive time with either or both of his or her parents at will. If Charlie wants a hug from his father, he can simply walk over to him and extend his arms. Likewise, if Charlie falls outdoors while playing, he can ask his mom to kiss the wound and make it "better".
This right – to the comfort, company, companionship and support of both of Charlie’s parents, is a fundamental right as precious as life itself. You only need to be in the company of a healthy, intact family for a few minutes to discern this fundamental truth. Who could possibly argue that Charlie’s desire for that care, comfort and companionship does not rise to the level of "liberty and pursuit of happiness" – an unalienable right for which our forefathers’ risked their lives?
Now, fast-forward to divorce court. In one bang of the gavel, Charlie is "assigned" to one of his parents as a "primary parent" – he is effectively now owned by that party. The other is assigned the majority of the financial responsibility for Charlie. Charlie is told when he may enjoy the care, comfort, and companionship of those most dear to him – his parents – and on what timetable he may have contact with them.
Charlie is no longer a free individual and he no longer has the most precious of his civil rights. He has become a slave and his rights infringed, with as much certainty as if he had been sold to a third party. Charlie’s unalienable right to the care and companionship of his father, for example, is now probably restricted to four days a month – and any attempt by Charlie to increase this time or contact is a violation of the law.
This restriction on care and companionship by family members, along with the prevention of Charlie’s desire to the companionship of his parents is precisely the condition of slavery that we abolished one hundred and thirty years ago.
More to the point: By what authority does the judge take Charlie’s right to that companionship on terms and at times that he deems appropriate away?
Remember what we are dealing with here again, if you please:
"….that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness…."
The founding fathers did not add to that sentence "unless you are a minor or a divorced parent."
Charlie has committed no offense. Indeed, according to our current system, nobody has committed an offense; the divorce was, almost certainly, granted as a "no fault" action!
From this point the situation deteriorates further. Should Charlie’s father decide that he is willing to protect Charlie’s desire to see him more often, he can only do so by attempting to violate both Charlie’s and his mother’s rights – by attempting to reverse the original custody determination. To protect his rights he must place Charlie’s mother in the exact position that he formerly occupied.
By what justification does any court infringe upon the rights of not one but two people in a divorce proceeding while claiming to "protect" the third? Our Constitution and body of law states, in clear language, that all persons have equal standing before the law – we are all entitled to equal protection. Yet the laws that you personally oversee, enact, and continue to promulgate violate those principles – and by doing so abuse children – every single day.
Now let us turn to the parents for a moment.
Dad, 93% of the time, has twenty percent of his net income garnished as "child support". What are we doing here? We are assigning all of the control and decision-making regarding Charlie’s diet, clothing, medical care, shelter, education and environment to his mother! Dad has been reduced to the person who pays the bills – despite any court order to the contrary, he must pay his ex-wife for her decisions – whether he agrees with them or not! If he disagrees with her decisions, or even if she spends the money not on Charlie but on a new BMW there is nothing he can do about it.
What about Charlie’s Mother? She, for her part, has been adjudicated by this same court to bear no responsibility for Charlie’s financial needs – food, clothing, medical care or housing. In fact, for any income beyond $20,000 that Charlie’s father may have, his "child support" payment is in excess of all of Charlie’s actual and reasonable needs.
For your edification, here is an actual example of how this all plays out. Since I’m in the mode of making this personal, I will do so with my own, current experience:
I could raise a half-dozen children on $1860.00 per month, especially if I only had them half the time. Under 750 ILCS I have no right of recourse, as there is no accountability in the law for where "child support" is spent. Quite simply, I have no right of review as to how these funds are expended under the law as it exists today, and my ex-wife has no requirement to contribute one penny to my daughter’s upbringing herself.
First we remove Charlie’s right to self-determination in that he loses any right to determine, for himself, who shall provide the hugs, kisses, pats on the head and care that he wants and needs in his life. We then further compound the civil rights violations by violating the rights of Charlie’s father to determine in any meaningful way how Charlie is financially supported and on what those funds are spent. Finally, we relieve Charlie’s mother from any responsibility to financially provide for Charlie, and give her what amounts to a blank check to spend as she wishes – on herself – without any oversight, check or balance on her behavior. If Charlie’s father attempts to "take the law into his own hands", having been denied any way to exercise his right to due process, we revoke his driver license and ultimately send him to jail.
What is the heinous offense for which Charlie’s Dad, under this scenario, would be imprisoned?
Being a father.
Is there a solution to this problem that is fair, equitable, and does not require infringing anyone’s rights?
There certainly is.
On the following pages you will find a legislative agenda that will accomplish precisely that goal.
This agenda protects the rights of the children first, and those of the parents as well. It destroys the economic incentives that currently exist for parents to abuse their children in the process of divorce and paternity proceedings. It continues the same rights and responsibilities that existed prior to divorce with regards to children, and provides a strong incentive for both parents not to interfere in the relationship between their children and the other parent.
This legislation also has "teeth" in it to punish those adults who insist on carrying on their campaign of terror at the expense of the children involved. With this change to 750 ILCS a child may no longer be used as a pawn in a power struggle between adults during divorce proceedings. No longer may false accusations of abuse occur without consequence. No longer may parents spend any ordered "child support" on their own follies without recourse. No longer may a parent willfully destroy his or her assets, then bill the other for the costs of their litigation.
There is no doubt that some parents of both genders abandon their families and children.
If this situation arises we can and should bring the full weight of the law down upon those who abandon or abuse their families, and the presented model legislation provides our children protection against abandonment and abuse.
Unlike the current body of law in 750 ILCS 5, however, this legislation recognizes that before one is to be punished one must have first committed an offense. It also recognizes that children come first, because unlike adults they have neither a voice nor the ability to defend their own rights.
It is our sacred duty, as a state and nation, to protect children from marauders wherever they are found – including divorcing parents.
Creation of new life is a sacred expression of our own humanity and is a pact with both the future and past generations. Whether you believe that this expression arises from God or from the social principles of justice arising under governments and men, it is your duty as legislators to step in and stop the rampant abuses perpetrated against this state’s children.
Under this system of law the dynamics of divorce and custody will change in this State, and the beneficiaries will be our children.
The primary effect will be to reduce the number of divorces undertaken for foolish or vindictive reasons. If this change in the law does nothing else, it will have served our children well.
But there is more that we can expect from this legislation – much more – in the cases where one or both parties insist on destroying the family despite their inability to bill the other party for their decision.
If both parents cannot agree to a custody and support plan the judge will be bound to impose the same responsibilities and privileges that each parent had prior to the divorce or proceeding. Both parents will be required to contribute equally to their child’s upbringing and care. More importantly, the child will have the same rights they he or she had before as well – the right to the care, comfort, and parenting of both of his or her parents.
Neither parent will become a "visitor" with the bang of a gavel. Neither parent will have an economic incentive to sue for sole custody (and child support), as a simple request for shared parenting will be sufficient to derail such a demand. Neither parent will be able to threaten the other with a ruinously expensive custody battle. Neither parent will have the right to file a false allegation of abuse and use that allegation to gain permanent custody. Finally, neither parent will have the right – or ability – to disrupt the children’s access to and time with the other.
Please note that this agenda does not prohibit the parties to the divorce from reaching a different result under circumstances where both parents agree to a different arrangement or where one party is found unfit by the court. On the contrary; the entire point of a level playing field in these situations is to improve the odds that the result will be the best possible outcome for all parties. Even in the worst of circumstances, where the judge attempts to impose shared parenting and one party abandons the children in response, the outcome is no worse than we have now with the present "mother custody" presumption. Since the majority of cases will not include child support, the enforcement agencies will be able to address the cases that deserve their attention – those who run off on their children.
For the vast majority of divorces, however, this outcome will disappear. The parents, cognizant of the fact that neither can use the children for their own selfish ends, will have to negotiate from a position of equality and with the children’s best interest at heart. The children will win, in that they will enjoy a better and more fulfilling relationship with both parents. The parents will win, in that neither parent is disenfranchised. Should the parents be unable to put their own demands aside for their children instead, the law will require the judge to do so for them. Should either parent subsequently neglect or abuse their children, the existing process for removing custodial rights from any parent via DCFS intervention remains in place.
Until you, as a legislator in this state, back and pass legislation substantially in accord with this agenda I will proclaim you to be an abuser of our state’s children, as you truly are. I will act in concert with others to remove you from office come the next election should you not have personally stood up for the rights of our children – in public, on the record – to formulate and pass this agenda.
I hold you personally responsible for the current state of affairs. As a legislator you, in concert with the other members of the Assembly and Senate, have the power to stop these abuses. Each day that passes without your documented and public action to do so is a personal ratification of the laws of today and your personal signature before both man and God in acquiescence to the abuse of our nation’s children.
It is time that you stood up to and faced what you believe in. If you are unwilling to take a public stand for the rights of both parents and children, you can expect that I, and others like myself, will go to great lengths to shine the light of truth upon your refusal. We will do so whether you refuse with pen or in silence. We will loudly, and in public, point out to all that it is you, personally, individually and jointly with the others of the Legislature, who are responsible for this American tragedy.
I will point out that you are, truthfully, an abuser of this State’s children.
These are harsh words, to be certain. The truth, however, needs no apology, and if you consider the impact that today’s legal system has on children and families the truth of that statement is self-evident. So is your role in either perpetuating the current abuse or stopping it – starting today.
It is my hope that come time for the next election I can list all of your names in a full-page political advertisement as supporters of the rights of Children and Families – and help you retain your offices. It is my hope that the side of the page reserved for those who abuse our kids will remain blank.
I call upon you to introduce, support, and pass legislation embodying the agenda attached to this document, and to indicate your support and intent both in response to this letter and in public through your words and deeds.
I welcome dialogue towards the end of introducing and passing this legislation during the current year; you may contact me at any time through the information on the first page of this address.
Sincerely,
Karl S. Denninger
Enclosure
BE IT RESOLVED THAT:
The current state of the law regarding divorce and custody of minor children is implemented in a fashion that leads to constitutionally-prohibited violations of the rights of both children and parents within the United States in the aggregate, as the current code:
Current research documents that children are less likely to do well in single-parent, mother-headed homes. Such children are more likely to have serious psychological problems, drop out of school, become involved in serious felonies before the age of 18, give birth out of wedlock, run away from home and quit school prior to graduation. All of these problems have been directly tied to the incidence of family breakup.
Further, it is documented fact that women initiate nearly 75% of divorces, and that as many as 7 out of 10 are initiated against the expressed desires of their husbands. As such it is the duty of the several state legislatures and Congress to discourage the destruction of families in the first place, and where such a result cannot be avoided, mitigate the damage to our children. Finally, contrary to popular belief, it is also a documented fact that of those parents who fail to pay child support, 95% of them are either dead, incapacitated, or unemployed - and thus unable to meet their obligations.
Towards the end of fair play, equitable treatment, and responsibility under the law for all parties towards our children we therefore must:
THE FOLLOWING LEGISLATION IS HEREBY PROPOSED IN ANY SUIT AT LAW WHERE DIVORCE, CUSTODY OR CHILD SUPPORT IS AT ISSUE:
SECTION A –
CUSTODY
SECTION B -
CHILD SUPPORT:
SECTION C -
ABUSE AND NEGLECT ALLEGATIONS
SECTION D
- FEE REQUESTS